Entitled Bride Chooses Her Future Sister-In-Law As A Bridesmaid Instead Of Her Actual Sister

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Jun 1, 2022 2:30 PM EDT

There are some family members that go above and beyond for each other simply because they're family. Unfortunately, there are some people out there who don't appreciate the lengths that family members go to make them happy. They get so comfortable with their family doing everything for them that at a certain point it becomes expected. These types of people especially suck if they do anything in return. Caring for each other shouldn't be a one-way street. In today's 'Am I the A$$hole?" post, OP told us about how she has been babysitting her sisters' kids for the past couple of years because her sister's husband cheated on her and left her, so she has to work more to make ends meet. OP has been offering her babysitting services for free to give her sister the time she needs. Her sister is getting remarried, which OP was originally thrilled to hear. Then she discovered that her sister wasn't planning on making her a bridesmaid for ridiculous reasons. Scroll down to find out why the bride is so entitled. 

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    Rectangle - r/AmItheAsshole. u/piperpoppy 20 hours ago 34 3 AITA for refusing to go to my sisters wedding after she didn't pick me to be her bridesmaid? Posted by
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    Of course, we have to read the fine print before we come to a decision about who's in the wrong. 

     

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    Font - My sister (27f) is getting married October, she and I (25f) were really close. So close, she moved out to the state I was living. Shortly after moving, my sisters first husband cheated and divorced her, leaving her and her two sons with nothing. My sister got a job that had working nights, and asked me to watch her sons from 2 PM-12 AM, with pay. I agreed. Well, as soon as I started watching her kids, she wasn't coming home until 2-3 AM, and "couldn't afford" to pay me.
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    OP went above and beyond for her sister. The least she could do is make her a bridesmaid at her wedding to show that she cares about their relationship. 

     

  • 03
    Font - I watched her kids for as long as I could without complaint because I loved the boys and wanted to be the only stable adult in their life, as their father became an alcoholic, and their mom was never home (or was bringing different men around them every week) eventually, after 11 months of this, she ended up moving an hour away for a job with better hours. Finally, my sister meets her now-fiancé last summer, and they quickly got engaged, I was happy for her! My sisters fiancé will often a
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    Font - Now to the bridesmaid debacle; When my sister got engaged, I had asked her if she was going to have bridesmaids, she said no and I was fine with it. Well, come to find out, she IS going to have bridesmaids, and one of them is her fiancés sister (someone she has known for less than a year) and had planned to keep this a secret and only have me find out the day of her wedding. I was upset because she lied about it & it is upsetting knowing that for 3 years I have been breaking my back to ta
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    Font - Her reasons were 1.) because of my toxic relationship, that ended 4 months ago, she "didn't want the drama of it" & 2. "(fiancé's) sister and him are so close and I wanted to incorporate her in our wedding to show appreciation!" I find her first reason to be the most malicious, as me and my ex have not spoken since the breakup. To use that as an excuse is unforgivable imo, as I supported her and never judged her during her first marriage and divorce. I was clearly upset, and I got out of
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    Font - Edit I want to add, that I do not care about being a bridesmaid, I am upset that she picked his sister in general, and lied about it. She didn't pick any of our other sisters, who she also lied to about it. She picked his sister, because she has this weird thing about wanting to be her friend. She has always pandered to her partners family because she wants them to accept her. And I'm upset that her exact words were "I would have picked you, but because of (ex- bf) I don't want you to be.
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    Organism - maroongrad - 20 hr. ago 2 & 92 More Colo-rectal Surgeon [34] NTA. You are missing the point. You were expected to be the free babysitter at the wedding.
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    Font - bubbyshawl 19 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [6] NTA, and sister needs the boundaries you placed on her. Forget her stated reasons for slighting you; they're bs, covering an uglier truth you don't need to defend against. Regarding the kids - please find some way to remain connected, short of allowing your sister to use them as a weapon to manipulate you. She's a train wreck, and they may need you in the near future. Again!
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    Font - Malibucat48 19 hr. ago Partassipant [2] NTA and keep refusing to babysit. Your sister will lie to her children but you can tell them the truth if they contact you. She might apologize and beg you to babysit once she realize how much child care costs.
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    Font - Pirouette2000 19 hr. ago Partassipant [1] NTA - being a sister is not a free pass. Yours is emotionally blackmailing you through her kids. Of course they love you, you have been looking after them for months. Don't go to her wedding unless you can have a serious conversation about boundaries and your relationship
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    Font - Dounesky 19 hr. ago NTA - your relationship as established has run its course. You have found out who your sister is for real and now, you chose to protect yourself. To the future SIL, I hope she's a good babysitter. Otherwise, she will run her course too!
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